My Grandpa’s 100-Year-Old Milk Punch Is Always the Highlight of Christmas Morning

When we look back on old family recipe files, the ones we hold dearest usually come from Grandma. It’s true—something about Grandma’s cooking is simply superior (perhaps it really is the expired seasonings, but who’s to say?).

Over the years, I’ve spotlighted several of my Texas grandma’s signature recipes, from her shortcut cake to her go-to dinner party staple. But my grandpa? He hasn’t had his moment—until now. That’s because my grandpa wasn’t much of a cook, except for one shining exception: Christmas morning.

Like many dads of his generation, my grandpa let Grandma handle most of the Christmas magic while he soaked it all in alongside us. But there was one thing only he could provide: his classic milk punch. As soon as he swapped his robe and slippers for something a little more presentable, he’d roll up his sleeves and whip up batches of this frothy, festive cocktail—often before noon.

Alongside our traditional cheese soufflé, Nueske’s Applewood Smoked Bacon, and Danish Kringle (way before Trader Joe’s brought it to the masses), Grandpa’s milk punch was the real star of Christmas brunch. And as we kids grew older, it became clearer and clearer why family and friends made it a point to stop by on Christmas morning.

What Is Milk Punch?

Milk punch is a creamy, spirit-forward cocktail made with milk or cream, sugar, and liquor—usually brandy, bourbon, or rum—and often flavored with vanilla or nutmeg. It’s a rich and warming treat, perfect for holiday celebrations.

There’s an older, more complex version of milk punch called clarified milk punch, which dates back to 17th-century England. This variation involved curdling milk with citrus, then straining out the solids to create a clear, silky liquid with a rich texture. However, by the 19th century, the creamy, unclarified version we recognize today became a popular New Orleans staple, especially for brunches and holiday gatherings.

The milk punch that graced our Christmas table was closer to the Southern-style tradition, although my grandpa’s recipe had its own twist. He always credited his father with passing it down, but I suspect it evolved over the years. The original versions didn’t use ice cream, and by the time my grandpa passed the recipe down to my mom, it included that decidedly modern touch—likely a 1970s adaptation, as proven by the “light” qualifier.

Traditional milk punch recipes often call for heavy cream, egg whites, or even sweetened condensed milk, but the ice cream shortcut makes my grandpa’s version as easy to prepare as it is decadent to drink. 

Yes, it’s a little over-the-top for Christmas morning, but isn’t that the point? Think of it as a lighter, more playful alternative to eggnog. Rich, comforting, and perfectly festive, it’s still the first thing we make on Christmas morning (although perhaps after a cup of coffee).

How to Make My Grandpa’s Milk Punch

• 1 cup milk
• 2 cups light vanilla ice cream
• 1 cup bourbon
• ½ cup rum
• 1 tablespoon crème de cacao
• 1 tablespoon sugar
• Nutmeg, for topping

1. In a large pitcher, combine the milk, ice cream, bourbon, rum, crème de cacao, and sugar.
2. Whisk until smooth and frothy.
3. Serve in chilled glasses over ice and sprinkle with nutmeg.

My grandpa may not have been the head chef of our household, but on Christmas morning, his milk punch was his shining contribution. For me, it’s the taste of the holiday—indulgent, nostalgic, and sure to add a little extra magic to the celebration.